Friday, January 2, 2015

A look back at 2014 & New Year's Resolutions - 2015


I have never made New Year resolutions in my life! YEP! NEVER!


I always believed that you should be self-improving whenever you feel the need, NOT wait for the 1st of next year, only to stick to the resolutions for a few weeks and quit.



I hate quitting! And maybe a part of why I never made a resolution is because I just didn't want to stress myself of not being a quitter. Maybe.

But this year is different. Because last year was different.

2014 taught me a lot. I always thought of myself as a kind, empathetic, loving person. 2014 showed me that I'm quite annoying, self centered and selfish! I would've never believed that I could be selfish, but guess what, I realize, I am!

2014 was a roller coaster ride for me. I've always been a private person. I like to unwind only with my close ones. Last year, I was thrown into painful situations that brought my loved ones even closer to me. And by the end of the year, I realize how much each one of them have done for me, and how much each one means to me!

Reflecting back on 2014:

1. My Marriage - We've have learned the true meaning of a family. And our marriage has been strengthened by the grace of God, put in 1 sentence - we are 1 body 2 souls now!
2. Got my dream job - As a young girl, I dreamed of being a designer. I somehow ended up studying and working as an engineer. As life took me through my story, I also got the chance to work as a fashion model, and TV presenter. And finally in 2014, I landed my dream job of working as a Fashion Stylist & Art Director in a reputed luxury multi-brand company in Kuwait.
3. My life long dream of visiting Paris with my love - Done!
4. Got closer to my Jesus.
5. My YouTube channel & Blog has grown a lot comparitively, although I was not able to give it my best.

So, all of this has made me want to be a better person. And that is precisely my goal for 2015.

Here are my resolutions for 2015. I wish to come back to this post exactly 1 year from now, and see how I did :) God willing.

1. Be selfless - Think, act, and live more for others.
2. Break out of my comfort loner zone, and keep in touch with my loved ones, and let them know how much I love them, and how I'll always be there.
3. Stop comparing myself to others - This is stupid. But I do it.
4. Stop getting jealous! I mean, I'm officially old this year :P I've got no more room for petty jealousies. I need to concentrate more on improving myself, my life, and making sure, my family and I reach our goal! :)
5. Take some time to cool down and analyse before I burst out into flames of anger (I'm very hot tempered :( )
6. Most importantly, build my relationship with God. Everything I am, everything I have is a gift from God. So, I need to get less lazy and make sure I get closer to the one who created and blessed all of us.

Well, I think this post has been more intimate and personal than anything I've done before.
Tell me, what are your resolutions for 2015? Or do you have any at all?

I wish you the best year ahead. God bless you!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

28 comments:

  1. Jovita,you are such a talented person. I've read all your blogs and watched all your youtube videos. I love your sense of humour and that cute accent!
    This year I also decided to make a few resolutions as its not really a "malayalee thing" and I've never done it before.
    Just out of interest, where are you from in Kerela?

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  2. Wow..3,4,5,6 are exactly my resolutions for this year too! All the best to you :) I absolutely adore how confidently you present yourself. I can't wait to see more of that in your videos this year!

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  3. Hello jovita,how are you? I have watched all of your videos.but, this is my first comment to you . U r such a energetic and humerous person.u have said that actually u r a short tempered.no chance.i can not believe this . We are expecting so many post and videos from you this year.cheer up my friend.. :-)

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  4. Last year was bittersweet for me in may ways too. I pray that your heart will be drawn closer to Jesus as you unwrap His blessing this 2015. Our God is so Good and He pprovides us with Grace to start fresh each time. God bless you Jovita! Love Kalasini��

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  5. i really couldn't believe your short tempered jovi anyways when a individual want to attain the goal exactly its okay in bursting :P its obvious ,but ensure you don't loose your precious one as well ...your a rare gem who shone magical rays in this crazy world so pls heaven sake hold your identity :* however changes can be positive :) your thoughts and resolution are inspiring too may all goodness follow ur every pace u travel" happy new year" 2015 ! ( my toughest resolution is to stay away from fat/yummy foods am trying hard this year as power of change lets see :) )

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  6. Hi! I like how this blog of your shows the more raw, human side of you, which we all have and we all try to conceal! Thank you for speaking from your heart.

    My resolution for 2015? I don't have any but if anything at all, I would like to focus on me in 2015. Do everything to give myself a push to not let my past or ppl that intimidate me control my future. I am a happy loner but it has also prevented me from pushing out of my comfort zone to broaden my horizons and be confident in myself. I would like to work on that side of me this year. I would like to pick up all the hobbies and my interests that I have left somewhere far in my past and regain the interest in developing my individuality that makes a happy and complete "me" and I would like to share that experience with the world so that I can help and inspire someone going through all the problems that I have in my life. I keep feeling I am too old and un-interesting for that but I guess time will tell :-)

    Wish you a very happy and successful 2015!!

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  7. Love your vids. Your personality is intoxicating. 1st vid I watched of you was the turmeric mask & was hooked. I'm quick tempered too & am working on it as well. We'll never be perfect but we can definitely improve.

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